I’m still learning, and that’s okay.

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Some days I wake up feeling like her:
Soft mornings, cute playlists, iced coffee in hand, plans, dreams, clarity.
And other days… I’m just a girl trying to figure it out.

For a long time, I thought I had to have everything sorted by now.
The right routine, the right relationship, the right version of myself.
Like there was a timeline everyone got a copy of and somehow I missed mine.

But lately, I’ve been realizing something gentle and important:
I’m still learning. And that’s okay.

I’m learning how to rest without guilt.
How to say no without over-explaining.
How to romanticize my life without putting pressure on it.
How to love deeply without losing myself in the process.

I’m learning that growth doesn’t always look aesthetic.
Sometimes it looks like canceling plans.
Sometimes it looks like crying in your car to a song that understands you.
Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself even when it feels uncomfortable.

And honestly? That still counts.

I’m learning that becoming that girl isn’t about perfection.
It’s about softness.
About choosing peace over proving something.
About letting life unfold instead of forcing it to look a certain way.

If you’re in your 20s, 30s, and you feel behind, lost, or like everyone else knows something you don’t…
Hi. Same!!!

You’re not late.
You’re not broken.
You’re not doing life wrong.

You’re just in a season of learning.
And learning is beautiful, even when it feels messy.

So here’s your reminder, from one girl to another:
You’re allowed to take your time.
You’re allowed to change your mind.
You’re allowed to grow slowly.

I’m still learning.
And if you are too…
we’re doing just fine 🤍🍯

With softness,
A girl still figuring it out.